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All you need is love...

From the second we met, our lives were intertwined. The night before our first date, I called her, called her out on her exact outfit, and talked all night. I couln't wait...I couldn't wait....I couldn't wait...

The night of our first date...I ran out of my job like a bat out of hell trying to get to her. We were meeting at a local cafe around the corner from where my office was. All nervous in my sweater, and puffy red vest...I walked into the cafe, looked around, called her....not there. I walk outside, and everything stopped....it was her across the street, drawing away in her book, listening to her iPod....just being...mine.

When I went over to her, the first thing I did was hold up a sign, (merely a piece of white paper pulled out of my printer), with the words "I'm Yours" written on it. She gave me a hug, which could have lasted all night, and we set off on our date. Originally, we were going to go to dinner in that area, until we both discovered how much people irritate us, and how similar we were in that respect. Not to say we are unsocial...we just are selective with whom we surround ourselves with. Thus, being one of a million reasons why I knew I had found my best friend and soul mate. We were beach kids...so we decided to go down to a beach on the South Shore. So after a story from Jen of swimming with sharks and such, we were kicked out by the army. We got back in the Jeep and went to a different part,walked on the beach, plopped our selves on the sand, started the fall...

It very well could have been the windiest and coldest night in March....I couldn't tell, she couldn't either. I kissed her after about 45 minutes of conversation...I did it. I got up the courage to do it....from there, our words were spoken with no sound. Every time I pulled away from her to get a glimpse of that beautiful smile...the silence was filled with moments of I love you. I love you. I love you. We covered our heads with our furry hood edges, in an attempt to show how much we already cared....and I left there that night...knowing she was it.

We moved in by May...which was the weirdest thing. Not once did we decide, "oh this here, and that there". Our tastes are so similar, there was no wrong. Everything fit in the first place it landed...we furnished it with another $3,000 on top of what we already had brought to the place. Things that were, us! The outcome was a pad that was so reflective of us, it is still amazing each and every day. We live here with our son, Fenway the cat. She loves him now which is beneficial to us all. Hahaha.

Our days are spent so typically untypical, saying I love yous and miss yous, until the second our work ends and we are back together. I got used to that view the second it was noticed babe.

I proposed one night in the hallway between two apartments with a cigar ring...(classy)....which soon after turned into matching tattoos on our ring fingers...(classy-er)...can't take those off. We told her family on Thanksgiving of 2007, which was followed by some Korbel and a little trip to heaven thanks to Luke. Our wedding plans are much like a black tie affair with a pinch of some "suits"....great people, some great music, and a whole lotta love. Everyone that plans on attending, are people who want to be there, who love us. It is a legal marriage, thank you Massachusetts.

She wears her heart on her sleeve, tuff love doesn't exist anymore, shes my queen, and I am her mo anam cara.

Once upon a time, I fell in love with my happily ever after....



J: the only thing i could add...
the moment i met you, the moment i fell right in love with you...i knew i never wanted anything to ever be just me, or mine...i knew from the very first night that i wanted to share it all...with just you. ::i love you baby::

C: There has not been one day that has passed that has not been anything but amazing. Everything with you was so effortless it almost seemed unreal.... Waking up has never been more exciting, as with falling asleep...its so hard yet so easy at the same time. You are my best friend whom I get to spend everyday with...as my wife. I love you Jen.

The beach..