Tammy & Kara
As of February 19, 2012, Kara and I have been together for nine years. We are about twenty years apart. Me being the oldest. We met while I was still married to my ex-husband of nineteen years. We met while working at Tops Friendly Market. I like her right off the bat. She always came to work smiling and make me laugh. It was a few months after she started working at Tops, she came over to visit at my home. We started spending a lot of time together. One Valentine Day, I realized I fell in love with her. I was very emotional that day. I was crying a lot. Everyone was concern for me. I couldn’t say anything because I did not know what to do. I fell out of love with my ex long time before meeting Kara. But I wanted to be with her. I had a sense she wanted to be with me. I knew being with her is really going to change my life forever. I was a Jehovah’s Witness. That met being defellowshiped and losing my best friend. I was not sure what my kids would think. I have a daughter and 2 boys. Ended up my daughter did not mind and one of son. My youngest took it the hardest. Took him awhile to come around. Anyways, after five days on that Valentine Day, Kara and I were laying in bed together, I had the urge to kiss her. When I did, it was the best kiss I ever had. Her lips was so soft. It did not take long before we got physical. There was so much passion between us. Never had that with my ex. Kara always had me smiling from the moment we woke up to the time we fall asleep. We have done so much together and gone places together that I never had with my ex. So, when I found out same sex can marry in N.Y., I asked her. She was really surprised I asked. But she except. We are getting married May 6th this year.
Fast FactsFirst met: in the year of 2002
First date: Feb. nineteenth 2003
Got engaged: june 26th of 2011
Ceremony location: will be at a park.
Honeymoon destination: just taking a whole week off from work
In Case You Were WonderingOur wedding colors: purple, green, and yelloe
We will be wearing: causal clothing
Who proposed to who: Tammy proposed to Kara
Our last name will be: Schwindler